You're 100% sure you don't want to be with him?

He showed up at your work to check in after you came back....I know he's confused and is moving ahead with selling the house and serving you papers but I think he shows serious signs of still having a foot in the M.

When I was the WAW, I found a used futon for H to sleep on. I emailed him the ad, he said "I get the hint." I went out of town and he said he was enjoying having a real bed. 2 weeks later he was complaining about his back, by this time he'd started dating GF, and he said no I wouldn't feel right. Each time he's stayed at mine since he's slept on the couch.

just my .02