H just threw a tantrum when he said that he was going to go take a nap in my bed and I asked him not to because I was not comfortable with him using it. He said that he thought it wouldn't be a problem as long as I was not sleeping in there. I threw out that it was my bed since I bought it before we were married. (This line of reasoning didn't work well, I won't use it again in the future.).
He left and came back and tried to get clever (in his brain) and said was I okay sleeping on the sheet shtat "we" purchased together? I didn't really follow this so I asked him to explain and I could tell he was seething. He said how could I separate the mattress which I claimed that I bought from the sheets which "we" purchased together? I explained that I was not comfortable with him sleeping in there given that he didn't want to have an R. Then he went on to say that neither the air mattress nor the couch mattress were very comfortable. I said I was sorry to hear that. He exasperatedly gave up and left again. I'm still in the office so I'm not sure where he ended up.
I feel like this just brings me back to me asking him why he was being so nice while we were still doing MC but he didn't want to be M anymore and he said it would make it "easier" to get through to D that way.
I remained calm and matter-of-fact throughout. So glad he is going away this weekend for a weekend of adolescent behavior and then traveling again next week and the weekend after.
