Never did anything. Now is this true. Or is it because you worked a ton of hours to support your family ?
Does that ring true ?
Not talking. Ok that takes two. Does that mean that you came home and unwinded ? Or does that mean when there was an issue from either of you, you shelled ?
Neglect : Serious. What you did not say "Honey you look nice today" or was it you were withholding sex. Did you feel neglected ?
Let yourself go : What you did not have the time to work out , work and be a father and a husband all at the same time ? Or was it because you wear a lose fitting shirt and slacks when she wants a jeans and a white shirt with some new shoes ?
How many spare hours did you have in a week outside of work , chores, sleep and day to day activities ?
Answer these questions honestly.
You may see that they are just self blame justification for the OM.
None of them are valid reasons to do this to your family.
None of them.
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