I am with LITB about your s using the threat of D to induce you to do things she is requesting. It does sound very controlling! Wonder if she is aware of that?
Oh, probably not. Pretty outlandish, huh?
Originally Posted By: gunny
As I am continually finding, even at this late juncture in my sitch, detachment to the extent possible is key. You know this, I am confident, just sometimes its good to hear it from other people.
The good news is her actions are making it a whole lot easier to detach. If she is who she wants to be right now, maybe she is really doing me a favor?
Originally Posted By: gunny
On the GAL front, did a 25 mile bike ride this past saturday, which is a high for me. Will have to get a gel seat, my butt sure was sore!
Very nice gunny. If ride more, your butt gets used to it, or maybe it just hardens. LOL.
