Here is the motivation to my weakness, besides I like spending time with her.
Her reasons for OM and faults in the marriage: - We never did anything - We weren't talking - I neglected her. I didn't make her feel special. - I let myself go.
By spending this time with her, I am addressing all of her points. I can't understand how more of the same (do nothing, don't talk) is going to change her.
I see more of the same as more reason to be over.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012