Originally Posted By: Starsky309
[quote=LostIn407]

She doesn't rub OM in my face. It is there, but rarely spoken about.


She's still with him if I'm not mistaken,
even though she is YOUR wife.

How much do you need it to be rubbed into your face for it to be considered "rubbed into your face"?

Man or Woman, cheating on your spouse with another person is a huge boundary violation which equals "rubbing it in your face".

You need to change the existing dynamic here if you want your situation to turn around.