KML- I have some career goals but not in a rush to change right now. But i do have some plans. I went to an IC for about 6 months and that went ok. My social life is pretty good, TBH some weekends I just collapse from doing stuff. The one thing that I'm working on is connecting with my D and being a better father. Never realized how uninvolved I was until this happened. Allways left her school and other things up to W. Not because I didn't want to be involved it just caused friction between us. We have different views as to how to raise her. So that is a main focus.

Gunny- I will be ok staying in the house. I will make it mine and dress it up like I want so. I'm exited bout that. I think it will be good for my D to have a stable place that she knows. yeap I fly when I can but it's been too hot. And yes the D is coming to the wire. I thought we would have been divorced and her gone by now. But nope we still in the house and I don't think she even knows when or where she is going. Last year when all this happened she had a realtor and was utting the place on the market. But she has slowed down. Good hearing from you


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden