Still not heard from H. I'm wondering if he saw my email as a sign of pursuit and has back off?

i don't really care about seeing him now. My ego is bruised at his ignoring me (it feels like rejection), but i'll live. Tho i still need my mail....

I've been pondering what to do if he doesn't reply at all, or if he replies on Friday (which will feel like short notice to me). is this game playing on H's part? I'm confused...


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11