I am almost a full week since W moved out and I have to say I am doing pretty good. I think I have been able to detach because I don't find myself sitting around wondering what she is doing. I have been able to forgive myself for my faults by addressing them, and i have forgiven her for most of her faults on the M. Some wounds are too fresh for total forgiveness just yet but I am working on it. I have talked to W everyday because of the kids and they have been pleasant interactions. I have been working out and starting to get myself back into shape. I am set at bettering myself, so if she decides to come back I will be ready. If she doesn't come back then I will be ready for whatever life has in store for me.


M-31, W32
S12, S9, S8, D3
M 12 Years
Bomb dropped: 4/30/12 ("I need to be happy")
EA discovered: 5/8/12 W denied
PA unsure
Moved out 7/6/12