Sorry my friend. I think your wrong on that opinion that OM is not a threat.

Here is what OM does.

1. Enables your WAS.
2. Drives a knife between you two.
3. Fills her EN's
4. Takes away from your EN's
5. Leaves you in Limbo.
6. Costs time and money.
7. Is a physical danger to you and your children.
8. Is taking time and energy away from your children.
9. Is building resentment.
10. Can lead to OM2.
11. While in the picture you cannot work on repairing your marriage.

Failing to take this parasite seriously is a mistake.

Your main problem in your marriage is that your wife is committing adultery.

That is the number one issue in your marriage.

If it is not.

Then embrace an open marriage and you both go do your own thing.

And see how quickly it falls apart then.


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