After finally getting alone and talking to my wife last night we may not be able to repair the damage. I found out a lot more than I thought I would and she's not sure what she wants for herself.
The wound is too new and too deep to know if I can forgive her and trust her ever again. Several times she asked, through heavy tears and sobbing, if it was over. Right now it is. I mean, c'mon ...
How bad was it? Would like some details and how are you doing? Has your discussions on the DB forum helped keep you more mentally grounded so you can handle this situation properly?