Just remember...there is no rhyme or reason to what the mlcer says or does. Why? They are operating on pure emotional energy. They are not thinking rationally and as long as they are nuts, you can't figure them out. The more you try, the more frustrated you will become. The best thing to do is step aside and allow him to head up the parade down main street. You have to sit on the sidelines and watch the parade w/a bag of popcorn.
I'm w/Brookie when it comes to the children. They will need to forge their relationship w/o your assistance.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
