Is it just me or am I asking too much of H to be available for events and birthdays of our son? I just expect him to be there. Right now our S4 is in baseball camp and while it's just 45 min of his time in order for use to be there on time, it would require H to leave work a little early. And by little I am talking 15-20 min. He has a job that he is able to do that as am I. When I asked him last night I reminded him of the time and if he was going with us he had to be at the house by 5:15 to eat dinner and get there on time. Of course he said he didn't know. I responded with "Well you know where we will be if your not home"
I have also asked him to request our sons birthday off which is next month. Plenty of time right. I just have this feeling he won't do it because of work.
I have learned to put my family before work but he hasn't it seems. Although I do give him credit for making it home Monday to go with us.
So.. since I am trying to change ME to make a better marriage. Any advice on how I not blow up when he decides to choose work over family? (I am just preparing in case that happens)
