LD, Let me ask you this. Do you welcome your H initiating and touching you during waking hours?
I am not attacking you. I am just curious. There has to be a time that he is welcome to touch you and a time that you are desirous of his touching you. If there isn't then the problems you have really aren't about the sleep sex, they are more along the lines of what the rest of us are experiencing--disparate drives.
