Hey JB,
Catching up on your sitch. Quite a bit going on. I am with LITB about your s using the threat of D to induce you to do things she is requesting. It does sound very controlling! Wonder if she is aware of that?

As I am continually finding, even at this late juncture in my sitch, detachment to the extent possible is key. You know this, I am confident, just sometimes its good to hear it from other people.

On the GAL front, did a 25 mile bike ride this past saturday, which is a high for me. Will have to get a gel seat, my butt sure was sore!

Continue to lean forward my friend,
GUNNY

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!