Wendy, It all takes time...you will get to the other side and when you do, you'll discover a whole new world out there. You can't rush the process. You can't go back and change the past, but you have the present (a gift) to change what you want to change now. Have you thought about what you would like to change? Make a list and check the ideas off as you get to them. You'll be amazed at how much you accomplish.
Good luck with the root canal.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
