hi lio, the only thing i might add is to tell him you are not fighting or controlling. you are just not helping (aiding, assisting, smoothing the way, etc.) and he will just have to do the work without your help.
it's funny how he says, "i need you to..." and expects you to meet his need. since he's "streamlining" his life now, he will have to find out what that means; he has no partner to help him and it's all on his shoulders.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing