They live together. He told me he was moving in with her in May. After that they started "checking" in wherever they went on Facebook. After seeing them going to museums, pretty romantic places, museums I tried to get him to go to, weddings in the country, I hid him from my timeline and someone gave me some great advice around mid-June he's not in a R with me. My marriage is over. Je's with her. And I got do so tired of letting him and his life with her consume my thoughts. I found a way to be happy for him (not that he'd found her) but happy that he was seeing a concert or something.
I realised a funny thing happened since I came here two threads ago and said I was done! I had my coaching session and H stepped up with S, we have become better friends, and this is the longest we've gone since the split with no blow ups or R talk and yet he's flirty at times.
I was thinking last night how different I felt the last time I hung out with my friend about a month ago. I was scattered brained, couldn't stop thinking about H. And how quickly things change. I'm not acting as if anymore!
