Children and their relationship with the WAS is certainly an emotionally charged issue. It's something that we all need to handle carefully. I certainly don't have all of the answers. I'm just doing the best that I can. While I understand that in many cases a good relationship can happen, unfortunately it's not possible between the boys and my H right now. He's way too selfish and delusional. My kids are being cheated, but there isn't anything I can do about that. I can't make my H be a good parent.
On a separate note, my H just renewed his driver's license and didn't change his address. Now was the perfect time to do that since he was being issued a new one. So I received that along with the rest of his mail. I really don't understand.