I don't how you do it. I flip if I see a clue that H spent the night at OWs place and your H freely gives out info about him and OW. I give you props! You are very strong!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017