So, today’s been a wild ride. My W and I both had our birthdays today. I have the kids and she’s partying the night away with her single, slutty best friend. Whatever, right? I actually had a huge day. I think it’s a 180! I came up with a solution to stop the garnishment and I think I have a solution to save our house. I thought our house was going to be gone; we were so far behind I thought I only had a couple months left living here. Even though my W is leasing an apartment, I am working on saving the house we own without any assistance from W. I must say it’s quite empowering. I kinda messed up because I told my W my plans because she needed to know but bringing up financial stuff on our birthdays didn’t make her happy, oh well. I don’t think she would have enjoyed hearing about it birthday or not. I probably should have waited a day but it’s to late now. We plan on discussing the financials in the next day or two. I just saw one of the first signs of pure anger from her when I started bringing up my solution to saving the house we own. Accuray gave me sufficient warning. He said if you start to do 180’s the W can get pissed and I saw it in her, just nasty. She said we need to discuss it more. I just smiled and stated that “ I understand and I agree” Anyway, I will continue to forge ahead.
One of my concerns is that we have been amicable so far. No lawyers needed and I really hope we can keep it that way. I just don’t want to piss off the W to the point where she feels she needs to get lawyers involved. It just seems like a messy situation that could go downhill. But who knows, it could go even farther downhill without my solution style thinking!
