Originally Posted By: Tinman
I was not going to go down but she text and asked if I was coming down. So I went down.


Next time decline and tell her you are busy.


Originally Posted By: Tinman

So, I thought about it and I just can’t go on like this. I sit by and watch while she goes out and parties, drinks like a fish and puts herself in horrible situations. I just don’t know what to do


So stop watching her, stop checking fb, stop being judgemental of her actions and what she chooses to do. Give her the space she needs right now (and more importantly you need right now) to let her live her life.

Originally Posted By: Tinman

Anyway I got home and yes in anger and frustration I sent her a very long text.


Where are those cans of STFU that you purchased?


Originally Posted By: Tinman


Tinman
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Registered: 06/07/12


Tin- You have been reading threads on here right? And if not you should do yourself a favor because their is a ton of wisdom in other threads on here. You have been at this a very short time IMO.

If your over your edge and are done that I will support you but I think you have more in you, what do you think? Don't answer that before 48 hours.

You must focus on yourself Tin and stop focusing on your w. I know it is hard but you can do this.


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley