Maybe that is why this is a slow process for the W. I know if I saw someone else right now and the W wanted to R, I wouldn't be able to just drop someone instantly. I would probably scale it back just to make sure things work out with the W. Which I can see the W doing right now. Who knows. Maybe the W is hesitant to work on the R/M until she is confident in my changes. Until that time, the OM is around.
Don't get me wrong. I am super upset the W spends time with the OM. It hurts that we spend 3 days together never more than a few feet apart and she talks/texts/sees the OM shortly after returning to town. (My assumption)
However, my W and I have done more together since a month or so after the bomb than we have in the last few years.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
