Yes it's perfectly natural. That's why it really is up to you.
My W had a fling with her boss that I had to overcome. I was able to see how strong I was as a human being at that point. Everyone must make their own decision.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.