Quote: I have a LD wife and I have been in the same boat as Hairdog, where my wife has fallen asleep during foreplay and I did not know it. Then she wakes up startled and angry.
This just jumped out at me. I think part of the problem (in general) is the fact that H only seems to engage in foreplay in bed. I've told H many times how much I would love to fall asleep to his caresses without any sexual pressure, but he has seldom ever allowed me to do so without regretting it. He says that he gets turned on by caressing me and can't help it. To him, he sees caressing me to sleep as foreplay... while I on the other hand, have always seen it as tenderly caressing me; not necessarily foreplay. If the LD wakes up upset, doesn't that just make sense?
