Thanks T2. You have been a good friend through this thing.

I have noticed that many people here have a "hang up". They get good advice from outsiders over and over but don't realize they keep doing the same thing.

I figure I am no different. It caused me to think about myself and what you guys have been harping on me about that just hasn't sunk in.

So this is my take on me. Y'all have said stop looking to my W. Stop looking back at what was. Stop allowing her to affect MY decisions. My M is over. Move forward. Live for me. Do what I want to do. Stop looking to her to define how I feel.

I will keep this in mind moving forward.

Well, did I get it? Anyone want to say hey dummy what about ____? You need to get that through your thick head too smile Feel free.

I am sure it is not something I will overcome tonite. But now I am aware.

Me-33
W-28
S-5
M-7
ILYBNILWY-1/15/12 7 year itch?