Had a great night with my friend and our kids. She's been divorced for 9 years. She is strong and confident and great!
I remembered something H had said while he was here, that he was sad he was going to be missing something because he and GF had to housesit for her sister. I thought it was kind of funny how in the beginning I thought he and she were having this romantic comedy themed life filled with autumnal leaves, musical interludes, two straws in a milkshake...you know what I mean. But anyway now I'm the one doing fun things and he's doing boring stuff with her.
And I also thought...why do you HAVE to house sit WITH her. It's her sister, if you want to go to something go to it. But I didn't dare say that. He's jumped in with two feet and I think he's become co-dependent with her. I don't want to be that way in my next relationship. I think part of me became timid because I never did anything on my own after I met him. Now I'm doing that more and more.
