Thank you for the last 2 posts, I seem to be in a similar situation as jks. I have a hard time remembering to see things from my H's perspective. I'm quick to anger and very reactive and I'm very impatient in this aspect, he also had a little bit more than an EA, kissing but no sex... don't laugh, it's getting me through right now. I want to be back on track now, but he is very resistant. He has plenty of reasons to not trust my changes, years of minimal sex/intimacy and severe depression on my part. Breathe and be patient, be thankful for the little moments and have no expectations. I should probably have this tattoo'd on my hand so I don't forget.
lillystillinlove M:43 H:49 T:17 M:16 S:6 Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY H moved out 7/27/12 H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive