Thread #7 - What goes down, might come up.

[25yearsmlc]

^^^....
going to the hospital (on base?) is probably faster than making an appointment.

So, if she comes back with a low thyroid or some other "Explanation for it all", then we can all be hopeful that she won't blame you for that

and that she'll actually take steps to heal.


But my gut says she's "stressed BECAUSE" of you wanting to have a marriage and family and all those other wacky high expectations of yours.

OTOH, I will send positive light her way and prayers that she's not physically sick for real.

You don't need that to deal with too...

but in case our guts are on target and this is just more of her and her "Stuff"

then the value of her seeing YOU in a better place soon, is hard to overemphasize. (Same for the kids, big time).

She'll envy your peace. She'll want it too.

The question will be whether she'll hope it lands in her lap, like "happiness" that she is simply entitled to, or if she DOES something to go get it.

Carry on Mike, you're on your way.