jks I would also point out that it sounds as if he knew OW before he married you- but he chose you. He had his many reasons then. Back then, you "won".
Later on, you were depressed and it's very hard. You may think that I'm overlooking your depression = I AM NOT. But
let's think of HIS feelings and perspective a bit more. Why?
B/c if HE does not believe the marriage can be better/different, than he won't return. Pretty simple and not insane or "inappropriate."
You can have all the reasons in the world (many can be "good" reasons) for not meeting his needs,
but doesn't he have the right to want those needs met?
If not a "right" to be happy, then certainly a "want".
I want you to stay on your course of self improvement and become the woman you were meant to become.
I believe becoming THAT woman, will help you win this race whether you reconcile or not.
IT's just your best shot at happiness IN the marriage OR OUT of the marriage.
Make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
