I will respond more... I really like a lot of the things you said, 25. But one thing I want to elaborate more on is that OW has been a family friend to H's family for several years now. H has worked with her for 6 years. She did a triathlon with H in April last year which H's parents were at, she ran a relay with H, his dad, and his sister last year and this year, she went camping with me, H, my kids, H's parents and sister last year, she's been at several work parties that H's parents have been to as well. H's father is a cop too so he works with this woman also. They are all a lot closer than you think and I really do believe that they don't want this but they still welcome her with open arms which makes it REALLY easy for H to continue this. So when I say cuddled up on the couch with her. I mean it. They are not feeling awkward having her around. The only awkward part was me walking into the house witnessing what they were doing.
I think they felt ashamed.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
