Definitely... my brother says that he will try to regain the upper hand when we meet. so i'll just try to validate and say nothing other than 'i'll think about what you've said and get back to you'.
really nervous...
That sounds good.
Take a deep breath.
If I tell you not to think about the color blue. But then I say it is a blue room inside of a blue house, with a blue car outside.
Have you stopped thinking about the color blue yet?
Being nervous is normal but he will smell it. Be yourself, and do not worry about him or what he thinks or does.