Have you considered setting a more firm boundary or going darker? I had a similar dynamic w/ my WAW and it came to a point where it was not emotionally healthy for me to see her so often because it would trigger feelings of hope and expectations whereas she seemed comfortable with flirting and being friends.
I have considered this just yesterday but I don't know how much darker I can go. I only see him when we exchange kids. I only text him about the kids, house or finances. When we exchange kids our conversation is light and pretty short. What more do you suggest??
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
