I was going to mention also in my earlier post... your daughter seems really caught up in this whole body image thing. She is growing and changing and on top of that trying to find her way through the minefield known as divorce.
You should keep the focus on health. Also though, there shouldn't be a day that goes by that you don't tell her how beautiful she is or how proud of her you are. Looks seem to be a big deal in your family, why on earth give her the added stress? Everyone is not beautiful in the eyes of everyone else. There is a reason for this. Something to think about.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory