Labug.. I am willing to do the work if I know what the heck to do or where to start. I know I can't change him, because in his eyes he is perfect, and I hope that by changing me it will change him. Which is the main reason I am here is how I can change me to make our marriage better.
Breakdown.. there isn't one of those seminars in my state (Iowas) but we have had similar ones come but I know H wouldn't go and would feel odd going myself.
