In my work I manage employees and he has told me several times that I treat him like an employee. I guess I don't see that, maybe I would have fired him by now, LOL.
I did this with my H, also. You laugh it off but really look at this, he's giving you valuable information. How can you change that?
You can't change him, you can only change you and to do that you have to be willing to dig way deep and look at parts of self that we usually like to keep hidden.
It's not easy.
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I think the communication is lacking in our M because I feel like I have to walk on eggshells with what I say because I might just say it wrong. I know what I say isn't the issue because I am not nasty about anything.
The best book I've read on this topic is How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
