First you asked what I want to do, and I answered the question. Then you asked what am I going to do? Slightly different question. At the moment, nothing. A little later, something, but not sure exactly what.
I'm sure you like my crisp decision-making style.
ssmguy,
You pretty much have a simple decision after this amount of time. You and your wife can get outside help for the NO SEX situation. If she is not interested enough in your relationship to meet a compromise that is not going to leave your needs completely neglected, you will have to move on.
If you don't move on, you can stay. You can kill that side of you and learn to be happy without it. I think this is what she was trying to make you do by her actions.
