So this morning when I called D to tell her good morning and to have a good day I asked to talk to W. I told W that I haven't really tried to understand her feelings. And she said for what. I told her for this whole mess. I said that I haven't really understood and that I wanted to and that I felt like a jerk. She got a little sad. I then just told her that I was sorry about not understanding and to try and have a good day. I hope it meant something and that she knows that I do really feel bad.