I'm sure by the end of the trip you'll feel like some things have been resolved without discussing them.
I think a lot of guys like dealing with issues this way.
In a way it's like him showing you how he wants things to be and what kinds of interactions make him happy, without talking about them.
When you respond positively and show your happiness - that's so much better than discussing stuff that has caused you both so much pain over the last couple of years.
You are doing good Yankee, it sounds like you are having a great time on this trip - keep us posted!!
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13