Thanks to you too sias! You guys are right... The random contact from the W that effectively woke me up at 7:15am got me spun up and flustered for no reason. I should be fully detached by now but I'm obviously not. I did make my SD happy so at least that was mission accomplished. Wish I could do the same for my W...

Good luck to you guys in your respective sitch's!

me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!