When I read your initial post, I wondered if Thursday night confused him, he did not like those feelings, so he pulled away. I know that my W would do the same in the past, be her old self during a visit and then back way,way up...
I think some people do not like to second guess themselves, they want to feel certain.. or they feel guilt easily and do not know what to do when we are nice.. or it may be more about how he feels about himself, your success is a reminder..
not sure any of that is your H and we all know the pitfalls of mindreading... but think that understanding there may be underlying thoughts/feelings going on, whatever they are, may help you feel less irritated?
working at the Olympics..awesome! what a wonderful opportunity for you!! Congrats!
loved your response about the wok. sounds like he might be projecting his own feelings about asking..
have a great day!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
