Kevd111

[Kevd111]

But if she says she's willing to try to work on the marriage at some point, how can that work if I'm to disengage?

In other words, she's confused between moving to end the marriage and giving things a try. The MC explained that if there is to be an effort to help the marriage, it would involve being together and doing things together, which makes logical sense. And I think there is a chance that she might choose to work on us.

Granted, she is still in 'limbo' which is the worst. I've been trying to do my own things, but we have two smaller children so it's not as if I can constantly leave the house to go do things and force her to deal with the kids. In the home together I do try to do my own thing - go read a book, do something with the kids, do work in the yard, etc. Is that sufficient?