I don't know, bug...how can they be so heartless? I could never do that to someone ( of course not! I'm co-dependent!)

I don't think they see it as doing anything to us. In their mind they've moved on so we should too. This is the new normal.

They create their new life, we create ours.

As Brit said, it's our responsibility. A new thing for us CoDs, taking responsibility for our own happiness.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss