It was all right there in front of me. Her telling me how others reacted when she told them what happened. Her constantly telling me that she isn't comfortable around me and feels violated. All I did was just listen. I didn't react. I just said sorry and that it was a mistake. I didn't try and feel her pain. Now i know why there is still a wall between us. How do I let her know that I want to understand and am sorry for not trying to understand?
