Speaking of independence, H texted me this morning saying "I need a wok. You ever use the one I left behind? Don't get upset please. I'm only asking if you don't use it, if you do I'll buy one" It was the don't get upset....that upset me LOL.
The second bold? You are upset 'cause he's telling you how to feel?
The first quote? Why do you think he might expect you to get upset?
Maybe because that's been your past pattern...?
And what did you do different this time, to change that possible pattern? A 180 might have been great and a change to keep?
