your H appears to be doing the "touch and go" that i read about on here when there's an OW on the scene. i look at that as a positive.
it reminds me of this small airport near my home where they train the navy pilots. all day long these small planes are practicing landing maneuvers; they come in, fly low, and the wheels touch the ground but then, they're off again, circling around for another approach and do it all over again.
they are practicing for the big landing. all the touch and go helps them decide when they're ready to finally land. each time, they get closer and closer to making it, and better and better. it builds their confidence and lets them know they are safe.
keep being there for his practice shots. i know it's so very, very hard but you are so very, very strong.
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SS this was a great post! Jks, I hope you're feeling better about things today. A new day brings new light and hopefully a new perspective.
SS, I needed this today. I keep being told by others to kick H out or they always remind me that he said he's moving out, and I should just face the facts. Hard to stay positive when all you're getting is negative feedback. So thank you for reminding me to stay the course.