Adele's Rolling in the Deep is a good MLC song.

And frankly if the woman wanted to pay $200 I would let her . . . .

You stbx is a fool, as are all people in MLC. I have done kind and compassionate. If people want to be idiots and wreck their lives, whether it is through drink, drugs, over-spending, and/or walking out on a long and happy marriage, there isn't a darned thing anyone can do except watch them crash and burn.

My life is now mine and I am not going to waste it wringing my hands over a self centred and immature idiot. There are good and useful thinkgs I can do, and real fun to be had. I have been getting rid of a lot of leeches in my life, very gently - like real leeches if you dislodge them too fast theyjust cling harder. It feels good.

Stay in there.