Well I am not really new. I was here back in 2009 and I am back again. After reading stories here I feel I am not the norm. While I am not divorced or separated, I feel if it wasn't for our 4 year old son, hubby would be gone by now. We met online 14 years ago and have been married for 13.
Many years ago my husband had told me he wanted out. We even looked at apartments for him. I think this was before 2009. At that time is when I bought DB. I think financially he realized it couldn't be done to move out. So we treked on.
Over the years fights have come and gone and our relationship has turned more into a roommate situation. Since moving into our new house we now have a spare room which he has claimed it for himself. So I sleep alone. He says he has trouble sleeping and I wake him in the night so he is better off in there. Whatever..
Our typical night is full of lack of conversation and in separate parts of the house. Don't get me wrong we talk and laugh but it's not a marriage. When I do say something he takes it the wrong way and says it's the way I say it. I think at this point I don't recognize how I say things. Its more friendship. We parent very well and we don't really fight.
My main issue is he frustrates me and I think at this point it's because I don't think he gives a crap about me. I think that is why we don't have sex either. Why would I give it up to someone who doesn't care?
Like I said I feel I am out of the norm here and in more of prevention mode than reconcile mode. Any advice??
