Thanks, AK. I'm actually really calm. I see this for what it is. My H is spiraling out of control. Maybe he's realizing that the grass isn't greener. I understand that MLC is about escaping depression and regaining control (of course, MLCers don't see this, but we LBSs do because we've done our homework). My H is frantically trying to do that. I just need to weather this storm and it's going to be a big one.