Haven't posted for sometime as nothing much has been happening in terms of our R. All I have been doing is trying to concentrate on keeping my changes and not backsliding.
It looks like things are slowly improving.
While on vacation, on the 5th or 6th day, after getting lost while driving in a foreign country, we were all getting a bit on edge. H and I argues but got over it.
The things about this is that when our D seemed to get irritated too, H starte explaining to D that she should understand that the reason why one persons mood affects the other, was that we were all connected. I said "yeah, we all care for each other" amd he agreed, pointing out that we never say "whatever" to each other, and its because we do care.
I really felt good hearing him say those things!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go